The Lonely Hearts Club

The Lonely Hearts Club

One of the reasons I enjoy blogging is to see how I’ve grown from my past experiences. I talked about singleness a few years ago and although I still agree with the things I’ve said, what I’ve experienced now makes me see it in a new light. Maybe I’m just getting older and wiser. But it’s a season I find myself in, still. The more I think about it, it’s honestly not a bad season. Is it rough? Sure. But there will never be a time we can live and enjoy for ourselves. Let me explain.

Time of Your Life

Everyone would always say how the single season is the best and how I should enjoy it. And they were right. I used this time a lot to just get to know myself and grow up a lot. But this season has helped me a lot to get my life together. That’s the benefit of this season. I don’t want to get into a relationship as a broken, messy person. So having time to focus on me and changing in a good way has been a blessing. Enjoy it. You won’t get time back like this. The next season will always come. So make the best of it.

Have No Doubt, It Will Happen

It sucks to be lonely. I watch way too many movies and I have to be the person that says it affects me but cute stories make me wish I had one. The struggle has been forcing something to happen when it wasn’t supposed to. People would say that it will happen once you stop thinking about it. And, I believe that’s true. I never thought I would be the person that would stop thinking about finding the one but it happened when I started working on myself. It’s going to happen and I know for me, God is full of surprises. Everything happens at its time.

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